I
still remember the song from the movie Lawaaris, “ Mere Angne Me Tumhara Kya
Kaam Hai…….Jiski Biwi Moti Uska Bhi Bada Naam Hai……..Jiski Biwi Lmbi Uska Bhi Bada Naam Hai”. This song made me
very clear that “SoulMate Koi Bhi Ho..Naam Sabka Bada Hai”.
But
today accidentally I came across this quote which says, “Eventually SoulMates
Meet For They Have The Same Hiding Place”. And this entered me in the zone of
many questions. Nothing serious. It's just that I did not understand the meaning
of his quote. My eye and mind was stuck only on two things, “SoulMate” and
“Hiding Place”. I tried to talk about this with my friend and even he found it
interesting but we could not get much into it so ended up thinking in a fun,
maybe a hiding place for romance for soulmates. Many people have shared their
elaboration on this quote which took my attention. The best line I could read
was, "There
doesn't have to be anyone who understands you. There just has to be
someone who wants to."- Robert Brault.
How beautiful it is to read and breathe with. Isn’t
it? But still in search of
something that connects me with this quote. And finally, today’s morning
gave me the answer.
Let me start by defining SoulMate
first.
News Reporter way of defining SoulMates:(A Hindi version will create a strong impact.)
“ Kaun Hoga Wo…Kaun Hogi Wo???????....Sochiye Dhyan Se. Iska Jawab Sirf Hamare Channel Pr. Bas Dekhte Rahiye Soulmate Ki Talash. Bas Hamare Sath.Sath Sath.
Parents Version:
Who will Marry a donkey like
you? Shame on you. What if she is a better version of Donkey. Ohh my God ..I will have to handle
two donkeys…..And it continues with either a shocked silence or nonstop
chaos. I know you people have already started imagining it.
Fairy tale Version of SoulMate :
Ohh my prince charming!! I
am waiting for you. I am Cinderella and you become my Prince Charles. White
horse, fireworks in the sky, birds singing, and whatnot.
But this is not what this
morning gave me. Accidentally I met someone who lost his right leg at the age
of 17 and his prosthetic leg became his Soulmate. He swims. He dances. He
writes. Its been 10 years. Pursued his masters from IIM Bangalore. No sympathy for him. Please. He
doesn't need it nor he deserves it. After having the pleasure to know his story I
found my version SoulMate and Hiding Place.
Your strength is the
soulmate for your weakness and they make a beautiful couple. Hide it in
you..let it grow in you. Because you don’t need anyone. You don’t need someone
to understand you. You just need you in you to better understand you. Eventually, when your
strength accepts your weakness you grow as a better version of yourself because
they have found the hiding place and it’s only YOU.
And if you are still worried
about the socially accepted meaning of SoulMate then let me tell something very
important which my best friend told me. "If not Kareena Kapoor then Mira Rajput for Sure and if not Ranbir
Kapoor then Ranveer Singh for Sure."
Leave the tension aside and become your own
SoulMate. Trust me your Strength and your weakness together will make a beautiful Love Story.
Good one.
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